I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.
Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
kvm1977 wrote:I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
So it's okay for other people to meddle in their affairs just because Cara didn't tell him? Sorry I don't suscribe to that. You're right in that Cara shouldn't have done it but that doesn't make it okay for others to get in the middle of their relationship by telling him. It's not their relationship so it's not thier place to tell him. If people wanna talk amongst themselvs about it then let them talk. I'm willing to bet noone on that show is real friends with him anyways. Even the vets despite them knowing him for years.
kvm1977 wrote:I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
So it's okay for other people to meddle in their affairs just because Cara didn't tell him? Sorry I don't suscribe to that. You're right in that Cara shouldn't have done it but that doesn't make it okay for others to get in the middle of their relationship by telling him. It's not their relationship so it's not thier place to tell him. If people wanna talk amongst themselvs about it then let them talk. I'm willing to bet noone on that show is real friends with him anyways. Even the vets despite them knowing him for years.
Yes, especially when it happens on camera. The person cheating doesn't have the right to be protected. No one should be blind from what's going on in their relationship. No one is saying he has to end the relationship but he should be told. I'd have told Cara that either she tells him or I do but cheaters deserve what they get
kvm1977 wrote:I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
So it's okay for other people to meddle in their affairs just because Cara didn't tell him? Sorry I don't suscribe to that. You're right in that Cara shouldn't have done it but that doesn't make it okay for others to get in the middle of their relationship by telling him. It's not their relationship so it's not thier place to tell him. If people wanna talk amongst themselvs about it then let them talk. I'm willing to bet noone on that show is real friends with him anyways. Even the vets despite them knowing him for years.
Yes, especially when it happens on camera. The person cheating doesn't have the right to be protected. No one should be blind from what's going on in their relationship. No one is saying he has to end the relationship but he should be told. I'd have told Cara that either she tells him or I do but cheaters deserve what they get
I think he needs to be told too..by Cara. And it's shitty that you would force someone's hand like that in a situation that has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Abram is going to find out eventually and he's going to have to deal with it but that doesn't mean you jump in and start giving out ultamatums..Where do you get off doing that?
If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
Well that's on Cara for not being upfront and honest with him from the get go.
If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
Well that's on Cara for not being upfront and honest with him from the get go.
I would probably feel some type of way if no one on the show had the decency to tell me. Whats worse is Abe is basically playing this season to get Cara her win.
KChallenge10 wrote:If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
Well that's on Cara for not being upfront and honest with him from the get go.
I would probably feel some type of way if no one on the show had the decency to tell me. Whats worse is Abe is basically playing this season to get Cara her win.
For me it would hurt more if the person I was with..the person that I love and trust couldn't man up and be upfront with me about what they done. Nobody on that show owes it to tell me and I wouldn't feel it's their responsibility to either because it really has nothing to do with them and they aren't my friends and on top of that they're playing a game for money..how do I know their intentions?( I know that last part is irrelevant but still).
If any of them REALLY cared about Abram's feelings, they'd have gone up to Cara Maria and told her "We feel bad and we want to tell him. If you don't tell him, we will." They didn't do that at all.
KChallenge10 wrote:If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
Well that's on Cara for not being upfront and honest with him from the get go.
I would probably feel some type of way if no one on the show had the decency to tell me. Whats worse is Abe is basically playing this season to get Cara her win.
For me it would hurt more if the person I was with..the person that I love and trust couldn't man up and be upfront with me about what they done. Nobody on that show owes it to tell me and I wouldn't feel it's their responsibility to either because it really has nothing to do with them and they aren't my friends and on top of that they're playing a game for money..how do I know their intentions?( I know that last part is irrelevant but still).
Yeah I guess no one owes him that I just couldn't imagine how much of a fool he would look like if it was never brought up and he had to see it on TV 6-8 months later.
KChallenge10 wrote:If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
Well that's on Cara for not being upfront and honest with him from the get go.
I would probably feel some type of way if no one on the show had the decency to tell me. Whats worse is Abe is basically playing this season to get Cara her win.
For me it would hurt more if the person I was with..the person that I love and trust couldn't man up and be upfront with me about what they done. Nobody on that show owes it to tell me and I wouldn't feel it's their responsibility to either because it really has nothing to do with them and they aren't my friends and on top of that they're playing a game for money..how do I know their intentions?( I know that last part is irrelevant but still).
Yeah I guess no one owes him that I just couldn't imagine how much of a fool he would look like if it was never brought up and he had to see it on TV 6-8 months later.
Oh yeah...I couldn't imagine that either. That'd be awful as **** for him and on top of that it'd make Cara look much worse than she already does.
I agree with that, someone should have told him. I can not imagine if my friends hide something like that from me...
I would have done same, told Cara if she does not tell then others have to.
And fact that Bananas told Jamie multiable times watch your cousin, makes me like him. Was he only one with common sense that realized that what Cara was doing was ****** up.
Just watched the after show! Abram is so freaking disturbing. He doesn't have limitations and he is so rightous. Just look the difference between Cara when she is alone(happy and shining) and when he is present. He suffocates her. I really hope they broke off. [/quote
They are both immature and probably both could use professional help. Abram with his explosions, and controlling behavior, and Cara acting like a sixteen year old. They need to both take a good long look and realize it's never gonna work they are just incompatible for daily life together and move on. They will both be happier in the long run.
kvm1977 wrote:I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
So it's okay for other people to meddle in their affairs just because Cara didn't tell him? Sorry I don't suscribe to that. You're right in that Cara shouldn't have done it but that doesn't make it okay for others to get in the middle of their relationship by telling him. It's not their relationship so it's not thier place to tell him. If people wanna talk amongst themselvs about it then let them talk. I'm willing to bet noone on that show is real friends with him anyways. Even the vets despite them knowing him for years.
Yes, especially when it happens on camera. The person cheating doesn't have the right to be protected. No one should be blind from what's going on in their relationship. No one is saying he has to end the relationship but he should be told. I'd have told Cara that either she tells him or I do but cheaters deserve what they get
I think he needs to be told too..by Cara. And it's shitty that you would force someone's hand like that in a situation that has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Abram is going to find out eventually and he's going to have to deal with it but that doesn't mean you jump in and start giving out ultamatums..Where do you get off doing that?
Abram has a right to know. Telling someone the truth isn't "meddling". If you're willing to talk about something behind someone's back you better be willing to say it to their face.
I have the right to tell anyone anything I know. Telling Abram is in his best interest. Again, I'm not worried about the ***** that cheated. And the same would be true if the guy cheated. He's a *****--the girl has a right to know. I'll tell them--shoot the messanger if you want but that's simple human decency.
I don't think Abram was controlling at all. If someone cheats on you they need to prove to you that it's over. She needed to get vote off the twins to prove that to Abram or end it with Abe. It is that simple. In life, every decision has ramifciation. **** who you want to **** but don't get ****** when you're dumb enough to do it on camera or in a house with 20 people and your boyfriend finds out. Cara's not a victim here
I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Not really. Cara wouldn't have told him. I think it's ok 100% for other people to talk about it if they were concerned. I know I would have spilled the beans quickly.
kvm1977 wrote:I have never liked Bananas but he did what he should have done. This is a game.My only issue with him is being a hypocrite but Aneesa & others should have told Abe about Cara & Tom
No they shouldn't have. It's not their place to get in the middle of Cara and Abram's relationship. The only one that should've told Abram is Cara and if she doesn't tell him then she doesn't tell him.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
So it's okay for other people to meddle in their affairs just because Cara didn't tell him? Sorry I don't suscribe to that. You're right in that Cara shouldn't have done it but that doesn't make it okay for others to get in the middle of their relationship by telling him. It's not their relationship so it's not thier place to tell him. If people wanna talk amongst themselvs about it then let them talk. I'm willing to bet noone on that show is real friends with him anyways. Even the vets despite them knowing him for years.
Yes, especially when it happens on camera. The person cheating doesn't have the right to be protected. No one should be blind from what's going on in their relationship. No one is saying he has to end the relationship but he should be told. I'd have told Cara that either she tells him or I do but cheaters deserve what they get
I think he needs to be told too..by Cara. And it's shitty that you would force someone's hand like that in a situation that has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Abram is going to find out eventually and he's going to have to deal with it but that doesn't mean you jump in and start giving out ultamatums..Where do you get off doing that?
Abram has a right to know. Telling someone the truth isn't "meddling". If you're willing to talk about something behind someone's back you better be willing to say it to their face.I have the right to tell anyone anything I know. Telling Abram is in his best interest. Again, I'm not worried about the ***** that cheated. And the same would be true if the guy cheated. He's a *****--the girl has a right to know. I'll tell them--shoot the messanger if you want but that's simple human decency.
Actually it is meddling because its not your relationship. You don't get to decide who needs to know what when it comes to other peoples relationship.
I have no problem whatsoever with Bananas letting the cat out of the bag. Maybe ******* Cara Maria will think twice about cheating on her boyfriend in full view of a house full of people, some of whom are her enemies. ***** had it coming.
I agree with that, someone should have told him. I can not imagine if my friends hide something like that from me...I would have done same, told Cara if she does not tell then others have to. And fact that Bananas told Jamie multiable times watch your cousin, makes me like him. Was he only one with common sense that realized that what Cara was doing was ****** up.
If people really believe John did it because he cared about Abe......I can't. It's not about the fact that it came out, it's about the malicious intent behind it and then trying to cover it up with concern.
Bananas definitely did it to save himself in the game and then proceeded to tell all Abe's friends/relatives/Thomas/Stephen that they were terrible people for not doing so.
I have no problem whatsoever with Bananas letting the cat out of the bag. Maybe ******* Cara Maria will think twice about cheating on her boyfriend in full view of a house full of people, some of whom are her enemies. ***** had it coming.
I dont get where all this Abram being emotionally abusive towards Cara maria **** on twitter. I mean have you watched Cara maria in the challenges?? She always looks like that when she is in a confrontation..ALWAYS.. "people saying look how scared she is... total signs of emotional abuse".. She has been acting that way since fresh meat!! Seriously... Laurel trying to start the emotional abuse charge on twitter is total BS!
Good for Bananas. Part of the game is knowing how to win, and manipulating emotions is a great way to do it! He wanted to break up the Abe/Care/Tom alliance and it worked! His closest allies are Jenna and Anessa, and Anthony. He needed more leverage.
Yes, it is...if you've known someone for years and their being cheated on you tell them. Cara should have told him--she didn't. Someone else should have.
Seriously, you're suggesting it is better to talk behind his back about his woman cheating on him. If Cara didn't want him to know she shouldn't have done it. Have the deceny to break up with someone if you're going to cheat--otherwise don't complain when they find out
Me too.
So it's okay for other people to meddle in their affairs just because Cara didn't tell him? Sorry I don't suscribe to that. You're right in that Cara shouldn't have done it but that doesn't make it okay for others to get in the middle of their relationship by telling him. It's not their relationship so it's not thier place to tell him. If people wanna talk amongst themselvs about it then let them talk. I'm willing to bet noone on that show is real friends with him anyways. Even the vets despite them knowing him for years.
Yes, especially when it happens on camera. The person cheating doesn't have the right to be protected. No one should be blind from what's going on in their relationship. No one is saying he has to end the relationship but he should be told. I'd have told Cara that either she tells him or I do but cheaters deserve what they get
I think he needs to be told too..by Cara. And it's shitty that you would force someone's hand like that in a situation that has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Abram is going to find out eventually and he's going to have to deal with it but that doesn't mean you jump in and start giving out ultamatums..Where do you get off doing that?
If someone had told Abe about the cheating as soon as he got there then I would see it being as meddling in someones relationship for no good reason but Cara going weeks without saying anything gives enough reason for someone to tell him. I would want to know if I was getting cheated on and this being on television makes things 100x worse. I would feel like complete shit if I was Abe and I went through that whole challenge without knowing and found out months later on TV. Abe would look like the biggest fool.
Well that's on Cara for not being upfront and honest with him from the get go.
I would probably feel some type of way if no one on the show had the decency to tell me. Whats worse is Abe is basically playing this season to get Cara her win.
For me it would hurt more if the person I was with..the person that I love and trust couldn't man up and be upfront with me about what they done. Nobody on that show owes it to tell me and I wouldn't feel it's their responsibility to either because it really has nothing to do with them and they aren't my friends and on top of that they're playing a game for money..how do I know their intentions?( I know that last part is irrelevant but still).
If any of them REALLY cared about Abram's feelings, they'd have gone up to Cara Maria and told her "We feel bad and we want to tell him. If you don't tell him, we will." They didn't do that at all.
Yeah I guess no one owes him that I just couldn't imagine how much of a fool he would look like if it was never brought up and he had to see it on TV 6-8 months later.
Oh yeah...I couldn't imagine that either. That'd be awful as **** for him and on top of that it'd make Cara look much worse than she already does.
I agree with that, someone should have told him. I can not imagine if my friends hide something like that from me...
I would have done same, told Cara if she does not tell then others have to.
And fact that Bananas told Jamie multiable times watch your cousin, makes me like him. Was he only one with common sense that realized that what Cara was doing was ****** up.
Just watched the after show! Abram is so freaking disturbing. He doesn't have limitations and he is so rightous.
Just look the difference between Cara when she is alone(happy and shining) and when he is present. He suffocates her. I really hope they broke off.
Abram has a right to know. Telling someone the truth isn't "meddling". If you're willing to talk about something behind someone's back you better be willing to say it to their face.
I have the right to tell anyone anything I know. Telling Abram is in his best interest. Again, I'm not worried about the ***** that cheated. And the same would be true if the guy cheated. He's a *****--the girl has a right to know. I'll tell them--shoot the messanger if you want but that's simple human decency.
I don't think Abram was controlling at all. If someone cheats on you they need to prove to you that it's over. She needed to get vote off the twins to prove that to Abram or end it with Abe. It is that simple. In life, every decision has ramifciation. **** who you want to **** but don't get ****** when you're dumb enough to do it on camera or in a house with 20 people and your boyfriend finds out. Cara's not a victim here
Not really. Cara wouldn't have told him. I think it's ok 100% for other people to talk about it if they were concerned. I know I would have spilled the beans quickly.
Actually it is meddling because its not your relationship. You don't get to decide who needs to know what when it comes to other peoples relationship.
I wish there still was like buttons. Completely agree with KVM1977
If people really believe John did it because he cared about Abe......I can't.
It's not about the fact that it came out, it's about the malicious intent behind it and then trying to cover it up with concern.
I have no problem whatsoever with Bananas letting the cat out of the bag. Maybe ******* Cara Maria will think twice about cheating on her boyfriend in full view of a house full of people, some of whom are her enemies. ***** had it coming.
Jamie is not her keeper and Cara is an adult.
Bananas definitely did it to save himself in the game and then proceeded to tell all Abe's friends/relatives/Thomas/Stephen that they were terrible people for not doing so.
The GOAT.
Tell us how you really feel.
Bananas is smart, I would've done the same shit. Cara basically loaded his gun.
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#Careless Maria
I dont get where all this Abram being emotionally abusive towards Cara maria **** on twitter. I mean have you watched Cara maria in the challenges?? She always looks like that when she is in a confrontation..ALWAYS.. "people saying look how scared she is... total signs of emotional abuse".. She has been acting that way since fresh meat!! Seriously... Laurel trying to start the emotional abuse charge on twitter is total BS!
Good for Bananas. Part of the game is knowing how to win, and manipulating emotions is a great way to do it! He wanted to break up the Abe/Care/Tom alliance and it worked! His closest allies are Jenna and Anessa, and Anthony. He needed more leverage.
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