Real Chance of Love

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January 29, 2009 - 10:50am

(Reply to #121) #122

[QUOTE=Binary Solo;46338]See, that's exactly why I can't date a man that has the silky silky going on. Just can't do it.[/QUOTE] My man is growing his hair out because I asked him too just to see how it would look, he has gorgeous but very curly hair so if he doesn't pull it back then he has an afro (LOL) but he has no problems getting it wet so I don't worry about it...BUT if he were to get it straightened and he started acting like Real does then I would cut that shit off in his sleep, LOL. Did anyone watch the reunion?? I was **** at the girls who told Chance off...I wish it had been longer!

January 29, 2009 - 12:11pm

(Reply to #122) #123

OtherPplsDrama

[quote=Stacee_Danielle;46339] Did anyone watch the reunion?? I was **** at the girls who told Chance off...I wish it had been longer![/quote] Yeah I caught the reunion. Those guys are terrible. I'm surprised Cornfed said she wanted to "give it a shot" with Real. Although, I'm not sure when this was filmed.

January 29, 2009 - 12:34pm

(Reply to #123) #124

Stacee_Danielle

[QUOTE=OtherPplsDrama;46348]Yeah I caught the reunion. Those guys are terrible. I'm surprised Cornfed said she wanted to "give it a shot" with Real. Although, I'm not sure when this was filmed.[/QUOTE] I am sure it was all a part of the plan so they don't get lumped into the Couples that fail before the reunion.

January 29, 2009 - 12:47pm

(Reply to #124) #125

V1man

[QUOTE=Stacee_Danielle;46358]I am sure it was all a part of the plan so they don't get lumped into the Couples that fail before the reunion.[/QUOTE] Agreed.... since vevmo knows Nick was dating her before the reunion show was taped.

January 29, 2009 - 1:23pm

(Reply to #125) #126

Binary Solo

I saw the reunion, I was definitely laughing at all the girls that were getting their digs in though I have to admit I agree with the boys about Rabbit and to a certain extent I agreed with So Hood. Chance has pretty much always been a ****** on camera, I actually thought he was more subdued on their show than he was on the other shows. I wouldn't have been trying to date either one of them, borrow some of their accessories maybe but definitely not date. Now if either Buddha or White Boy get a dating show, someone let me know!

January 29, 2009 - 1:31pm

(Reply to #126) #127

Anonymous

[quote=Binary Solo;46377]I saw the reunion, I was definitely laughing at all the girls that were getting their digs in though I have to admit I agree with the boys about Rabbit and to a certain extent I agreed with So Hood. Chance has pretty much always been a ****** on camera, I actually thought he was more subdued on their show than he was on the other shows. I wouldn't have been trying to date either one of them, borrow some of their accessories maybe but definitely not date. Now if either Buddha or White Boy get a dating show, someone let me know![/quote] Buddha and Whiteboy are both arrogant SOB's. I liked Whiteboy until he started saying all that BS about him and Megan.

January 29, 2009 - 1:32pm

(Reply to #127) #128

Anonymous

[quote=OtherPplsDrama;46348]Yeah I caught the reunion. Those guys are terrible. I'm surprised Cornfed said she wanted to "give it a shot" with Real. Although, I'm not sure when this was filmed.[/quote] It was filmed a couple of weeks ago. In the middle of January I believe.

January 29, 2009 - 1:33pm

(Reply to #128) #129

Anonymous

[quote=Binary Solo;46325]It's sad, some of these women set feminism back a few decades. Yet I'm addicted to this trash tv, I can't stop watching! And I still say men and show caps in the hot tub don't go together, I would have rather he pulled his hair up in a cute little bun on top on of his head. . .[/quote] lmbo!

January 29, 2009 - 2:37pm

(Reply to #129) #130

Stacee_Danielle

Blog from CornFed... [url=http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=71922920&blogID=466963906]MySpace.com Blogs - What I want you to know About my experience on Real Chance of Love and what happened after! - CornFed from VH1s Real Chance of Love ♥ MySpace Blog[/url] [COLOR="DimGray"][QUOTE]This is my first blog I’ve ever posted. I feel like the truth needs to be told about my experience on Real Chance of Love and also what happened after the cameras were off… I had an amazing time on Real Chance of Love. I made some amazing friends and I fell for Real. Anyone who says that reality tv is fake or the people are acting, well that’s your opinion. But I was NOT acting! I am NOT fake! Very very far from it infact. What I felt for Real was sooo real. I will always hold this experience very dear to my heart. After Real Chance wrapped, Real and I had a great relationship (over the phone). We stayed in contact everyday, texting, calling, I even went out to stay with him for 5 days over Labor Day weekend. I thought everything was fine, I had a blast getting to know his family better. I thought we were in love, we talked about me moving out there and etc… But when I got back, we would talk on the phone he had changed. I didn’t understand why he was acting so distant. I then started to find out he was in contact with some of the other girls from the show, not just as friends, but saying he wanted to fly them to see him and other things. When I confronted him about this he denied it and then said I couldn’t handle his life style and that he couldn’t be serious with anyone because it wasn’t good for his career. Also, when I asked him about why he didn’t share with me that he proposed to Hoops he said that it wasn’t a big deal. I mean come on, it’s a marriage proposal. How is that not a big deal? Believe me I am very very far from a jealous person, but when I have to see my boyfriend propose to another woman on national television along with millions of people with NO for warning, it hurt my feelings. So, after that our relationship started to fizzle. We didn’t see eye to eye on many things. Also, there were other things that happened in my life and I tried to reach out to him and he wasn’t there for me. I posted this video below because I am extremely upset by the fact that he said I went left field on him. THAT NEVER HAPPENED!!! I NEVER EVER checked his phone! How could I? I lived in Fargo. I never got jealous! I got hurt by the shady things that happened. I had so much love for Ahmad and I tried sooo hard to make it work. You guys have to understand, I was devastated when it didn’t work out. I even thought maybe seeing him at reunion would rekindle some of those feelings. We even went as far as to say we were going to try and make it work. But he has not reached out to me since. I have a lot of love for Ahmad still. I would love to be friends and have him be a part of my life even still after everything that has happened. Whether that happens or not is in God’s hands. I don’t regret my experience on the show, or falling for Ahmad, everything happens for a reason and I thank God everyday for the life his has let me live.[/QUOTE][/COLOR] [url=http://blog.vh1.com/2009-01-28/corn-fed-its-over/#more-53619]Corn Fed and Real Break Up | Blog Archive | Vh1 Blog[/url] [COLOR="dimgray"][QUOTE][B]On stage at the reunion, you and Real resolved to give your relationship a try. What happened between then and now that made you write what you did?[/B] I reached out to him. I texted him. He didn’t hit me back for about two days and the only thing he said was, “Sorry I didn’t make it out [to see you], tell Cali I said happy birthday.” He hasn’t tried to get in contact with me after that. I feel like his attempt to have a relationship with me was just for cameras. I went into the reunion thinking there would be something again, and he completely lied. I feel like it was acting. He came up with all these excuses to break up with me. I don’t think he had a legitimate reason to break up with me. I never checked his phone. I never “went left field.” I’m a very laid-back person. I was very understanding of his lifestyle. We were thousands of miles apart – I had to be understanding. My thing is, if he doesn’t want to be with me: fine. But don’t come up with all these excuses not to be with me. It makes me look like an idiot. I’m a good woman and really awesome girlfriend. [B]What was the breaking point? You visited him Labor Day weekend and it was all good. Things went awry from there?[/B] He started acting weird on the phone. He went from calling me three times a day, telling me how he loved me to calling maybe every two days. He had all these excuses and I could tell he was being distant. There are a lot of rumors going around saying there’s going to be a Season 2. I know this show was really successful, so maybe that was his purpose? He kept saying that it wasn’t good for his career to have a serious girlfriend and he wanted to take things slow…just different excuses all the time. I was like, “How much slower do you want to take it? For God’s sake, I live in North Dakota!” He went from asking me to move out there to taking things slow and it was just like wow. He completely flipped. [B]In light of this, do you question his sincerity in the first place?[/B] Absolutely, I’m gonna question it. I put my heart into this and I feel like he felt the same way. I don’t think that he did not have feelings for me, but I know for a fact that it wasn’t love. I think it was just strong feelings. I’m pretty sure that I fell more in love with him than he did with me. I really, really did love Real. There are people who think there are a lot of fakes out there, that this stuff is just for TV, but my heart was so invested in this. [B]Did Real ever give further explanation for the “not good for my career” excuse? Good for his music career? His reality TV career? What?[/B] He thinks he’s some rock star and I can’t handle his rock-star lifestyle. I don’t get it. What do you mean you’re a rock star? Don’t go on TV looking for love if you don’t think any girl can handle your rock-star lifestyle. [B]Are you heartbroken?[/B] I was very heartbroken when we started getting distant. It took me a long time to get over him. Even up until the reunion, I still had feeling for him, or the old feelings came back. A part of me will always have a lot of love for him. Who I fell in love with on the show was who I thought that Real was. After it ended, he seemed to have changed. I don’t love that person. To go on the computer and see what he said about me behind the scenes, that was totally bulls***. He said one thing behind the scenes and then he gets onstage and says something else. Real is not what America sees. He is not Real as people think he is. [B]So you were growing distant, while everyone was watching you grow together. That must have made a strange viewing experience.[/B] It was difficult. Just when you think you’re starting to get over somebody, you gotta watch it. I would start experiencing feelings again and start missing him a lot. I started hearing that he was talking to the other girls from the show. And I don’t care, he can have any type of relationship he wants with them. But he wasn’t talking to me anymore. I thought, “Wow. You really don’t want anything to do with me.” The thing is, I developed strong relationships in that house so he couldn’t do anything behind my back. I heard everything. [B]Do you know which girls he was talking to?[/B] I do, but I don’t want to say. The girls are the ones who told me. One of the girls he was still in contact with didn’t even know he picked me. I played dumb and didn’t let them know he picked me, just to see what they’d say. That’s how I played the game in the house. I would never put mine and Real’s business out there, but those girls would do that in a second. I don’t see why they’d lie about it, but when I’d confront Real about it, he’d tell me they were making it up. I wanted to believe him because I loved him, but it was happening too much. [B]I’m sure you’ve heard the rumor that you’ve been dating Nick Brown from The Real World Hollywood. Do you care to address that?[/B] It’s so funny. Nick and I are really good friends. I worked with this booking agent, who worked with a lot of Real World people, so he introduced me to Nick. Nick and I started talking on MySpace and then the phone. We have a lot of things in common. We put each other in our top friends and then this rumor started going around that we were dating and we hadn’t even met physically. We didn’t hang out till last weekend. We’re not together or dating, but he’s a good guy and I like him a lot. [B]So just to be absolutely clear: it’s absolutely over between you and Real?[/B] Yes. I don’t know what he’s going to say about it, but anything he says is a lie. I’m so sick of holding this in. I held it in for way too long. I’m still the same person and I want people to see that I’m a real person who had real feelings going into this. I was hurt bad. Like, really, really bad. [B]You said that you didn’t think love could be found on reality TV, but then you got there and found that it could. Looking back, do you wish you’d kept up your guard?[/B] No. I don’t regret anything. I’ve always been the type to go into a situation with my heart on my sleeve. I don’t think you can find love unless you wear your heart on your sleeve. It sucks that I got my heart broken, but I picked myself back up. I’m gonna move on because I’m a good woman and whoever I end up with will be lucky to have me. I’ll be lucky, too, because he’ll be the one.[/QUOTE][/COLOR]

January 29, 2009 - 2:44pm

(Reply to #130) #131

OtherPplsDrama

Thanks, Stacee! [quote] [B]I’m sure you’ve heard the rumor that you’ve been dating Nick Brown from The Real World Hollywood. Do you care to address that?[/B] It’s so funny. Nick and I are really good friends. I worked with this booking agent, who worked with a lot of Real World people, so he introduced me to Nick. Nick and I started talking on MySpace and then the phone. We have a lot of things in common. We put each other in our top friends and then this rumor started going around that we were dating and we hadn’t even met physically. We didn’t hang out till last weekend. We’re not together or dating, but he’s a good guy and I like him a lot. [/quote] Awwww, c'mon girl Nick is SOOOO much better than Real!!! So sad that he did break her heart though. That never feels good no matter who you are or the situation. I hope the best for her in the future. She just seems so [I]genuinely[/I] sweet.

January 29, 2009 - 3:07pm

(Reply to #131) #132

V1man

[QUOTE][B]I’m sure you’ve heard the rumor that you’ve been dating Nick Brown from The Real World Hollywood. Do you care to address that?[/B][/QUOTE] Hahaha! Could VH1 and 51 Minds be backpedaling any faster? It's not a rumor when one of the two parties involved says it's true and we have the evidence to prove it.

January 29, 2009 - 3:29pm

(Reply to #132) #133

Stacee_Danielle

[QUOTE=V1man;46411]Hahaha! Could VH1 and 51 Minds be backpedaling any faster? It's not a rumor when one of the two parties involved says it's true and we have the evidence to prove it.[/QUOTE] I know...bourgy.com has a pic of the two of them together, but I didn't want to steal it from them becaseu I can't remember B's rules for that off the top of my head.

January 30, 2009 - 10:10am

(Reply to #133) #134

Binary Solo

So typical with Real maybe that's how he got a hit put out on him (though that's not really something to joke about so I feel appropriately shameful for even bringing it up). I liked Cornfed alot so if she's with Nick I'm all for that he is definitely an upgrade. I wonder if he's still kicking it with ****, I know everyone thought she was skanky but I kind of liked her crazy ***, at least she seemed to legitimately be there for him. And she looked like a beacon of sanity compared to that weirdo sock jacking chick on rock of love bus.

January 30, 2009 - 10:17am

(Reply to #134) #135

hotboih

So was that gossip,awhile back, about one of the women being a man or trans-gender true or just a big rumor?

January 30, 2009 - 10:40am

(Reply to #135) #136

Stacee_Danielle

[QUOTE=Binary Solo;46545]So typical with Real maybe that's how he got a hit put out on him (though that's not really something to joke about so I feel appropriately shameful for even bringing it up). I liked Cornfed alot so if she's with Nick I'm all for that he is definitely an upgrade. I wonder if he's still kicking it with ****, I know everyone thought she was skanky but I kind of liked her crazy ass,[B] at least she seemed to legitimately be there for him.[/B] And she looked like a beacon of sanity compared to that weirdo sock jacking chick on rock of love bus.[/QUOTE] ummm, wasn't she rubbing her stuff all over Chance too in the first episode?? I am pretty sure she was just there for the exposure and she knew being extra skanky would get her more camera time.