I actually enjoyed the interview and I felt Devyn made her feel comfortable. If anyone was uncomfortable it might have been Aneesa as Cara was literally talking shit about her and friends without actually saying their names lol. She seems happy and she does seem to have matured a bit by acknowledging she lost herself to the show and was unable to separate her real life from it. Also, she said she's learned who she is outside the show. Unfortunately, any and all growth she has made she literally credits to Paulie. I was waiting to see how long the interview would go before she brought him up and also awaiting an "impromptu" cameo from him. She said she thinks Johnny had a crush on her and suggested that she and him start dating and become The Challenge King and Queen and that Paulie and Natalie should date. Clearly from Johnny's actions at this time only prove he was desperate to have a showmance. I also felt like she was speaking from her experience on All Stars 4 although I could be wrong. In a nutshell, it came across as positively bitter. If that makes sense.
I actually enjoyed the entire interview, I did notice she brought up Paulie a lot but I'm choosing to not think much of it because we saw just a fraction of their relationship on the show so it's not fair for me to formulate opinions on that.
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
We haven't seen them on TV in 4 years so I really don't feel like I know enough to have these opinions
It's cute to be optimistic like that, but old schooler is right in this instance. Cara has never had a sense of identity and Paulie has definitely taken advantage of that that. You don't have to see their day-to-day life to know what's going on in this instance imo
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
I never said I'm impressed with Paulie's work. I didn't know Paulie cheated on her, I don't follow them on SM. (I only follow people I like on twitter, or used to. I'm banned again, lol. And I don't have IG) so my information is very limited.
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
i feel like the mirroring is moreso done on paulie's part
when they started getting close after the filming of final reckoning that's when paulie really started ramping up that grunge/pirate ********** aesthetic with all the piercings and Joker pics/quotes on everything that cara seems to like. before he was with zakiyah/those other bachelor girls and he had much more of a basic frat ********** aesthetic to match them.
during his big brother season he got a haircut to match his ally at the time (paul, funny they hate eachother now lol) and started taking up his behaviors and style. it's very weird the way he mirrors everybody he's close to
from my perspective cara has actually had more of a consistent identity in the show throughout her entire career, whether you consider it likeable or not. she always kept a similar personality/style/sense of humor. paulie is the social chameleon. usually in those kind of situations the narcissist/controlling one is the one without the sense of identity, not the other way around.
butttt also i don't know them personally and everything we see on social media is like 1% so i'd never really jump to solid conclusions, but those are patterns i've noticed.
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
Should have included that he cheated on Cara with Britini Thorton for the bigger picture. But he also got her permission, that whole trio was the strangest thing i've ever seen. Paulie def manipulated her to live that "*****" like fantasy. "As a gift you can f my friend". Such weird shit lol
It's pretty clear they're in an open relationship. Paulie isn't a bad guy. I've never hated him and never understood the hate. He's polarizing and delusional but in a comedic way. He's very loyal and competitive which I find endearing. I remember he interviewed on the mikepodcast a year ago with Cara and he was getting heated talking about haters online and she had to tell him to stop addressing it because he's going to make it worse. At one point he was basically calling all the women on Allstars 40 year old washed up easy to beat etc. and that Cara would dominate. Cara had to remind him multiple times during his rant that she's pushing 40 and he kept ignoring her it was so funny. I love them. I would be happy to be their 3rd.
It's pretty clear they're in an open relationship. Paulie isn't a bad guy. I've never hated him and never understood the hate. He's polarizing and delusional but in a comedic way. He's very loyal and competitive which I find endearing. I remember he interviewed on the mikepodcast a year ago with Cara and he was getting heated talking about haters online and she had to tell him to stop addressing it because he's going to make it worse. At one point he was basically calling all the women on Allstars 40 year old washed up easy to beat etc. and that Cara would dominate. Cara had to remind him multiple times during his rant that she's pushing 40 and he kept ignoring her it was so funny. I love them. I would be happy to be their 3rd.
Reading this paragraph just kept getting better and better
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
It's pretty clear they're in an open relationship. Paulie isn't a bad guy. I've never hated him and never understood the hate. He's polarizing and delusional but in a comedic way. He's very loyal and competitive which I find endearing. I remember he interviewed on the mikepodcast a year ago with Cara and he was getting heated talking about haters online and she had to tell him to stop addressing it because he's going to make it worse. At one point he was basically calling all the women on Allstars 40 year old washed up easy to beat etc. and that Cara would dominate. Cara had to remind him multiple times during his rant that she's pushing 40 and he kept ignoring her it was so funny. I love them. I would be happy to be their 3rd.
I mean in that live Britini did years ago she mentioned they did 3 somes, but she also slept with paulie sometimes with cara's permission but also at times when she didn't know. I'd say that's cheating.
Tbh I don't see the difference between them and a lot of y'all. The funniest people try to past judgement on other's as a person. This site has racists, blackfishers, etc.
Tbh I don't see the difference between them and a lot of y'all. The funniest people try to past judgement on other's as a person. This site has racists, blackfishers, etc.
Well this was clearly a shot at me...so embarrassing myself to fit in on a messageboard has zero reflection on who I am in real life. I'm a very good person lol. They consistently prove they are not good people. We aren't the same.
Tbh I don't see the difference between them and a lot of y'all. The funniest people try to past judgement on other's as a person. This site has racists, blackfishers, etc.
Well this was clearly a shot at me...so embarrassing myself to fit in on a messageboard has zero reflection on who I am in real life. I'm a very good person lol. They consistently prove they are not good people. We aren't the same.
That's fair lol. All you know is the ridiculous Vevmo persona, so naturally that's how you would judge me. This place isn't reality though, outisde of here my life is dedicated to traveling and doing good lol.
That's fair lol. All you know is the ridiculous Vevmo persona, so naturally that's how you would judge me. This place isn't reality though, outisde of here my life is dedicated to traveling and doing good lol.
That's fair lol. All you know is the ridiculous Vevmo persona, so naturally that's how you would judge me. This place isn't reality though, outisde of here my life is dedicated to traveling and doing good lol.
I actually enjoyed the interview and I felt Devyn made her feel comfortable. If anyone was uncomfortable it might have been Aneesa as Cara was literally talking shit about her and friends without actually saying their names lol. She seems happy and she does seem to have matured a bit by acknowledging she lost herself to the show and was unable to separate her real life from it. Also, she said she's learned who she is outside the show. Unfortunately, any and all growth she has made she literally credits to Paulie. I was waiting to see how long the interview would go before she brought him up and also awaiting an "impromptu" cameo from him. She said she thinks Johnny had a crush on her and suggested that she and him start dating and become The Challenge King and Queen and that Paulie and Natalie should date. Clearly from Johnny's actions at this time only prove he was desperate to have a showmance. I also felt like she was speaking from her experience on All Stars 4 although I could be wrong. In a nutshell, it came across as positively bitter. If that makes sense.
I actually enjoyed the entire interview, I did notice she brought up Paulie a lot but I'm choosing to not think much of it because we saw just a fraction of their relationship on the show so it's not fair for me to formulate opinions on that.
I'll formulate it for you then Hauserman. It's called mirroring. She has no identity except for the men she dates. Paulie is a controlling narcissist who makes her feel like she needs him and he's the only good thing in her life. He cheats on her, mistreats her and she convinces herself it's ok cause he's made her feel like she'll be worthless without him. She has no self-worth and has not grown. That's cute that y'all are impressed with Paulie's work though.
We haven't seen them on TV in 4 years so I really don't feel like I know enough to have these opinions
It's cute to be optimistic like that, but old schooler is right in this instance. Cara has never had a sense of identity and Paulie has definitely taken advantage of that that. You don't have to see their day-to-day life to know what's going on in this instance imo
I never said I'm impressed with Paulie's work. I didn't know Paulie cheated on her, I don't follow them on SM. (I only follow people I like on twitter, or used to. I'm banned again, lol. And I don't have IG) so my information is very limited.
Yet my
opinionsfacts still stand.i feel like the mirroring is moreso done on paulie's part
when they started getting close after the filming of final reckoning that's when paulie really started ramping up that grunge/pirate ********** aesthetic with all the piercings and Joker pics/quotes on everything that cara seems to like. before he was with zakiyah/those other bachelor girls and he had much more of a basic frat ********** aesthetic to match them.
during his big brother season he got a haircut to match his ally at the time (paul, funny they hate eachother now lol) and started taking up his behaviors and style. it's very weird the way he mirrors everybody he's close to
from my perspective cara has actually had more of a consistent identity in the show throughout her entire career, whether you consider it likeable or not. she always kept a similar personality/style/sense of humor. paulie is the social chameleon. usually in those kind of situations the narcissist/controlling one is the one without the sense of identity, not the other way around.
butttt also i don't know them personally and everything we see on social media is like 1% so i'd never really jump to solid conclusions, but those are patterns i've noticed.
Should have included that he cheated on Cara with Britini Thorton for the bigger picture. But he also got her permission, that whole trio was the strangest thing i've ever seen. Paulie def manipulated her to live that "*****" like fantasy. "As a gift you can f my friend". Such weird shit lol
It's pretty clear they're in an open relationship. Paulie isn't a bad guy. I've never hated him and never understood the hate. He's polarizing and delusional but in a comedic way. He's very loyal and competitive which I find endearing. I remember he interviewed on the mikepodcast a year ago with Cara and he was getting heated talking about haters online and she had to tell him to stop addressing it because he's going to make it worse. At one point he was basically calling all the women on Allstars 40 year old washed up easy to beat etc. and that Cara would dominate. Cara had to remind him multiple times during his rant that she's pushing 40 and he kept ignoring her it was so funny. I love them. I would be happy to be their 3rd.
Reading this paragraph just kept getting better and better
remember when they allegedly f7cked with cara wearing danielle's underwear (the one he'd later cheat on her with)
wow you clocked her ***
I mean in that live Britini did years ago she mentioned they did 3 somes, but she also slept with paulie sometimes with cara's permission but also at times when she didn't know. I'd say that's cheating.
Yeah...and someone said he wasn't a bad person. They are both horrid humans.
Tbh I don't see the difference between them and a lot of y'all. The funniest people try to past judgement on other's as a person. This site has racists, blackfishers, etc.
Well this was clearly a shot at me...so embarrassing myself to fit in on a messageboard has zero reflection on who I am in real life. I'm a very good person lol. They consistently prove they are not good people. We aren't the same.
Debatable.
That's fair lol. All you know is the ridiculous Vevmo persona, so naturally that's how you would judge me. This place isn't reality though, outisde of here my life is dedicated to traveling and doing good lol.
Are you a traveling prostitute?
No. My name is not Victoria Dehal.
Fair point.
I screamed
Hehehehehehe
Will Paulie ever propose ?
i think i remember cara saying she doesn't like marriage as a concept and doesn't really care about it
I swear he said before he would propose when he won the challenge lol
he did! ******
I think Jordan proposing to Tori was both of their dream, that's why Cara was so ****** off
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