A kid is not a thing you leave for 1-6 weeks with hardly any calls! if you don't have the appropite support ****
Maybe I am just over protective with children
Right lol? I'm not productive at all. I'm all about leaving the kids for a bit and living your life if you have the means, care, and support system. Not everyone has that. Dummy with a law degree makes it seem so black and white.
A kid is not a thing you leave for 1-6 weeks with hardly any calls! if you don't have the appropite support ****
Maybe I am just over protective with children
Again--most people have that support--it's odd that she has a 9-10 year old and there's no one able to watch the kid to an extended period of time. It's likely trust issues with her which is fine--she can raise her kids however she wants. Random kids are at my place all the time--if someone needed us to watch one of our kid's friends especially during school it wouldn't even be a issue if there was a legit reason for it. I don't know if you all not having kids is confusing you here but it's abnormal for people not to have anyone for that. Doesn't mean it can't happen but it's abnormal. We're not talking about a 18 month old here.
Lol I always have a small hood that Coral will show up. But until we get confirmation that she is standing in front of TJ , I'll hold my breath. Coral is very much about her daughter so I doubt she will go on this one. Maybe *** if it films during the summer. I imagine a lot of the parents are dealing with their kids going to school and stuff right now. But, then again, Rachel, Tina, and Veronica going would be people in her corner. And I'm sure ppl have reached out to her, so who knows. She looks like she's in good shape too, so I hope Coral comes back for at least one more hooray.
It's not even about him tbh. Asking someone to uproot thier whole life and routine for 6 weeks and watch your child while you're off on a reailty show you're likely not going to win is far from an easy task. That's a lot to ask of someone even if you think they'd do it.
A kid is not a thing you leave for 1-6 weeks with hardly any calls! if you don't have the appropite support ****
Maybe I am just over protective with children
Again--most people have that support--it's odd that she has a 9-10 year old and there's no one able to watch the kid to an extended period of time. It's likely trust issues with her which is fine--she can raise her kids however she wants. Random kids are at my place all the time--if someone needed us to watch one of our kid's friends especially during school it wouldn't even be a issue if there was a legit reason for it. I don't know if you all not having kids is confusing you here but it's abnormal for people not to have anyone for that. Doesn't mean it can't happen but it's abnormal. We're not talking about a 18 month old here.
- I wouldn't take care of a random kid for 6 weeks that's a huge responsibility & it can lead to problems.
- I wouldn't leave a kid with any friend probably just the other parent, grandparents and one of my sisters. Maybe that's the Hispanic in me that wasn't even allowed to sleepover in anyone house when I was kid.
Plus there's the kid themself, who is probably going to act out since the parent is gone. A 10 year old isn't going to be understanding about mom just being gone on vacation for 6 weeks while they have to either stay with someone new.
I feel what PR is saying as a hispanic, I was very close to my grandparents though and it wasn't beyond the norm for them to take care of me for a long period of time (sometimes months), in fact it happened a few times cuz of my parents needing to work a lot. Some of these cast members may have close family members that can assume the responsibility that the kids will be used to.
Ayanna has like 4 kids and yet she made it work and I know she's an excellent mama... it takes a village sometimes
Katie has a kid too. Jisela had kids. Amanda has kids. Kendal had kids. Many others have kids too but not everyone is lucky enough to have a village. Or 7 weeks left alone with a village is hard. Katie said the reason she is done is because her daughter cries and begs her not to go.
Plus there's the kid themself, who is probably going to act out since the parent is gone. A 10 year old isn't going to be understanding about mom just being gone on vacation for 6 weeks while they have to either stay with someone new.
Unless they go the Kendal route. Be honest with the kids and let them watch so they could be excited to see mommy on TV. I would have loved that as a kid, probably because my dad raised me on these shows though.
I also feel like if I was in the situation. I wouldn't even get the chance to worry about how the kids would feel if I left because I wouldn't trust anyone with my kids for that long, but I also don't have anyone I consider close enough to watch them and I'm not just leaving them with anybody.
There are a lot of decisions that I think are terrible decisions from production but I do my best to understand their thought process or why they do some of those things. Passing on Susie and Julie will NEVER make sense to me. EVER.
No Marie is tragic - besides Queen V in Dirty 30 she was the star of the trilogy, and I've always wanted to see her interact with the old school peeps. No AYTO is a huge win though
how did we get Leroy on this? I always find it laughable when the people who make a big deal about retiring appear go to film another season less than 2 years later. Just go back on the main show. So weird. Makes it all seem like it was just for extra air time during double agents.
Also super sad about Holly S hoping the dates shifting helped. Also were Holly B and Chadwick contacted - need them back asap too.
Aint no sane parent asking KVM to watch a kid for 6 weeks either.
Maybe it's cultural. Literally had 2 kids stay here last night and got them ready for school. When we go on vacation our older kids take friends with them. Our older kids go on vacations with our families. Not talking about a toddler but older than that I don't sew a problem if you know them at all. I feel like some just assume the worst will happen.
There's a huge difference between finding someone to watch a child for a night and finding someone willing to uproot their life for 6 weeks....
I guess it depends on the individual. Adding another kid to the mix isn't a huge deal. For grandparents or childless individuals it would be a bigger change. I don't know Coral's relationships but if this is truly something she wanted to do, I don't believe it is, she'd have someone willing to do it. Again maybe she doesn't trust anyone but there's always people willing to help if you ask.
So does that mean we could rule out Adam Larson?
Right lol? I'm not productive at all. I'm all about leaving the kids for a bit and living your life if you have the means, care, and support system. Not everyone has that. Dummy with a law degree makes it seem so black and white.
Again--most people have that support--it's odd that she has a 9-10 year old and there's no one able to watch the kid to an extended period of time. It's likely trust issues with her which is fine--she can raise her kids however she wants. Random kids are at my place all the time--if someone needed us to watch one of our kid's friends especially during school it wouldn't even be a issue if there was a legit reason for it. I don't know if you all not having kids is confusing you here but it's abnormal for people not to have anyone for that. Doesn't mean it can't happen but it's abnormal. We're not talking about a 18 month old here.
You wouldn't watch a kid for 6 weeks stop lying
Lol I always have a small hood that Coral will show up. But until we get confirmation that she is standing in front of TJ , I'll hold my breath. Coral is very much about her daughter so I doubt she will go on this one. Maybe *** if it films during the summer. I imagine a lot of the parents are dealing with their kids going to school and stuff right now. But, then again, Rachel, Tina, and Veronica going would be people in her corner. And I'm sure ppl have reached out to her, so who knows. She looks like she's in good shape too, so I hope Coral comes back for at least one more hooray.
Aint no sane parent asking KVM to watch a kid for 6 weeks either.
It's not even about him tbh. Asking someone to uproot thier whole life and routine for 6 weeks and watch your child while you're off on a reailty show you're likely not going to win is far from an easy task. That's a lot to ask of someone even if you think they'd do it.
No all stars 1 film a while ago & he is on a better place
So did you just confirm Adam Larson?
Not really lol Just saying
Omg are we getting Abe and Adam reunited after their infamous fist fight? I'm ready for this!
Lol I didn't understand either
- I wouldn't take care of a random kid for 6 weeks that's a huge responsibility & it can lead to problems.
- I wouldn't leave a kid with any friend probably just the other parent, grandparents and one of my sisters. Maybe that's the Hispanic in me that wasn't even allowed to sleepover in anyone house when I was kid.
Ayanna has like 4 kids and yet she made it work and I know she's an excellent mama... it takes a village sometimes
Plus there's the kid themself, who is probably going to act out since the parent is gone. A 10 year old isn't going to be understanding about mom just being gone on vacation for 6 weeks while they have to either stay with someone new.
I feel what PR is saying as a hispanic, I was very close to my grandparents though and it wasn't beyond the norm for them to take care of me for a long period of time (sometimes months), in fact it happened a few times cuz of my parents needing to work a lot. Some of these cast members may have close family members that can assume the responsibility that the kids will be used to.
Katie has a kid too. Jisela had kids. Amanda has kids. Kendal had kids. Many others have kids too but not everyone is lucky enough to have a village. Or 7 weeks left alone with a village is hard. Katie said the reason she is done is because her daughter cries and begs her not to go.
Unless they go the Kendal route. Be honest with the kids and let them watch so they could be excited to see mommy on TV. I would have loved that as a kid, probably because my dad raised me on these shows though.
I also feel like if I was in the situation. I wouldn't even get the chance to worry about how the kids would feel if I left because I wouldn't trust anyone with my kids for that long, but I also don't have anyone I consider close enough to watch them and I'm not just leaving them with anybody.
Ugh - I want Elka so bad. We have been robbed her presence every season so far....
This. 1000%. So dumb
No Marie is tragic - besides Queen V in Dirty 30 she was the star of the trilogy, and I've always wanted to see her interact with the old school peeps. No AYTO is a huge win though
how did we get Leroy on this? I always find it laughable when the people who make a big deal about retiring appear go to film another season less than 2 years later. Just go back on the main show. So weird. Makes it all seem like it was just for extra air time during double agents.
Also super sad about Holly S
hoping the dates shifting helped. Also were Holly B and Chadwick contacted - need them back asap too.
wasnt it said that she wasnt on season 3 because she couldnt find anyone to take care of her kids?
Maybe it's cultural. Literally had 2 kids stay here last night and got them ready for school. When we go on vacation our older kids take friends with them. Our older kids go on vacations with our families. Not talking about a toddler but older than that I don't sew a problem if you know them at all. I feel like some just assume the worst will happen.
Nobody is saying otherwise! But some people aren't privilege enough of having a trustworthy village to do that for 1-6 weeks.
There's a huge difference between finding someone to watch a child for a night and finding someone willing to uproot their life for 6 weeks....
wait 6 weeks? How much longer is the main show lol
I guess it depends on the individual. Adding another kid to the mix isn't a huge deal. For grandparents or childless individuals it would be a bigger change. I don't know Coral's relationships but if this is truly something she wanted to do, I don't believe it is, she'd have someone willing to do it. Again maybe she doesn't trust anyone but there's always people willing to help if you ask.
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